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Alright, I must grant you that, it does have some signal value, but it's not so strong that a man could reliably know what that woman dreams of. I even suspect that many of the heals-and-cleavage girls frequenting night clubs are actually hoping to attract long term spouses there (from what I've heard some of them say). They are either uninformed and take time to figure out that this is not a way to do it, or perhaps this is how women are supposed to look in their social circles and they actually do find their husbands eventually, from among the nightclub-going men?

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As to that, I don't really know what they're thinking; they certainly had no hope of attracting my attention... though in all fairness they weren't really looking for me. I never attended night clubs, and regretted every party I ever went to. My own strategy was to major in a hard science and find intelligent women in college. It worked very well for me, but I wouldn't recommend it for most people, as there are far more men than eligible women who enroll in differential equations!

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