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From my personal experience (as a lot of relationship advice is given), it sounds like you were taken for granted as the relationship was one sided. I think women weigh sex (esp. after the initial spark is gone) as more work and emotional upkeep than us guys understand. This can start a cycle, putting in tons of work to get your reward a…
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From my personal experience (as a lot of relationship advice is given), it sounds like you were taken for granted as the relationship was one sided. I think women weigh sex (esp. after the initial spark is gone) as more work and emotional upkeep than us guys understand. This can start a cycle, putting in tons of work to get your reward at the end of the night and her believing things are now equal as you both did something to contribute.