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"But isn't that because women have used their power in society to form standards of childcare to fit their own feelings of anxiety?"

This explains pretty much all of family law (which is - rightly - a huge concern for young men considering marriage and especially children); the daycare moral panic of the 80s and 90s with the continued unavailability and unaffordability of daycare today; the "soccer mom" and eventual "helicopter mom" phenomena; the outlawing of free-range-children that persists to this day and undermines their emotional development; and the child care standards that make (more) children unaffordable for so many people.

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Not to mention that the acceptable minimum middle class standard for raising a human kitten has gone up astronomically, in terms of time and financial resources.

Not so long ago, you fed the kid, put a roof over his head, and didn't beat him so bad that he never got to be a big kid, you were doing a pretty good job.

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