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Hello, Tove. You know, the difficulty with talking about "autism" is that a whole mess of different conditions get labeled "autism." Nevertheless, you and I both know ourselves as "kind of aspie" women, and you and I both have autistic kids, so within that range, there's *something" worth talking about.

One of the things I have found very striking in my conversations with autistic people on forums like Wrong Planet is very, very anxious they are. Many of them are even socially anxious. They are acutely aware of the fact that they are different from other people and they are very worried about other people judging them. It's like talking to a middle schooler who's afraid of being bullied, except these are grown adults.

My own kids are very anxious, too. It leads to a lot of phobias and OCD. It's... frustrating.

Anyway, autists might be bad at observing social norms, but boy do they wish they could.

I have a couple of different/related theories: autists have abnormalities in brain growth/connectivity. Smart people also have differences in brain structures. Stick two smart people together, and maybe you get a brain that is just trying to get too big/connected.

Relatedly, autists seem to be very emotionally/socially immature. My kid is like a 20 yr old in intelligence and a 6 yr old in emotions. Not just in bad ways, like tantrums. He is very sweet in the ways of little children, too. He does not like any sorts of "mean words" and is always kind to animals.

But all humans mature slowly compared to, well, practically all other animals (elephants and some dolphins/whales seem to be the exceptions). Extended childhoods are necessary for developing higher IQs. So perhaps "develop more slowly" is yet another way to get a smarter person, but combine two such people, and you get a very slowly developing child.

I don't favor the "extreme male brain" hypothesis. Autism is more common in males, but so are dyslexia and retardation and schizophrenia... none of which are very masculine. Yes, autists are bad at social stuff and can be fascinated by objects, but a lot of that is repetitive "stimming" related to OCD and difficulties they have with anxiety. It's like they get stuck.

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"If nature had a more elegant way to create curiosity for the objective world and some healthy skepticism of social conventions, those genes would probably outcompete the aspie genes. Maybe they will, in the future. But for the moment, aspie genes exist all over the planet. I think they are here for a reason."

No, aspie genes ARE the future. We're already cognitively equipped to interface with ever-advancing technologies and develop them even further.

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